Sunny Side Up Daily

     This week I’d like to have a candid discussion with Niley fans. Nelena, Jemi, Robstin or whatever other name mash up relationships that people are obsessed with, please listen as well this is important.

    Nick Jonas and Miley Cyrus are the ONLY people who really know what happened or is happening in their relationship. Your cousin’s sisters brothers friend who once hung out/saw/stalked/either or some of them does NOT have the real scoop. They have made it very clear (for publicity reasons or not) that they don’t want to openly discussion their relationships.  Yet, hoards of obsessive fans are still talking about and fighting about this relationship. THAT’S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. It’s okay to talk and wonder about who they are dating but not okay to decide for them who they should be with then bash everyone else they date.

     Furthermore, anything you do, say or obsessively fight over will not change their relationship status. Only their management they can do that. Since you haven’t had an open discussion with them you have no idea what really happened. You shouldn’t be decided who was in the wrong if either of them was then taking sides treating the other like crap. (Taylor Swift/Joe Jonas anyone? Though yes Taylor did talk about it that doesn’t mean you blow it out of proportion and call one a cheating asshole or the other a crazy bitch.)

   Some of you guys make every Disney or younger artist fan crazy by making comments like these:

 ”school was.. ehh.. hehe. does anybody have niley news for me? please? really need some.. *sighs* miss them..”

“Niley belongs together,they will get back together I know they will or Ill die!”

“If “Nelena” go bike riding together is when i will HATE HATE Nelena. That’s NILEY’s thing.”

 ”RT: if you hate nelena #HateNelena”

“I hope that ugly bitch dies for taking Nick away from Miley. Niley forever.”

      Comments on OceapUp are completely out of control for hate on whichever couple fans don’t like. Let me explain something. If your emotions, mass amounts of time or social life changes or gets messed because of a celebrity couple you need to seek professional help immediately. Actually let’s broaden that to if a celebrity in which you are not friends (don’t hang out, don’t call each other) dating someone else tramatically hurts you emotionally you really need to get some help because thats not okay and it might hurt you in future relationships. Step away from the computer and go outside exploring the real work for a long time. Not to be mean just trying to tell it like it is.

     I know it seems like I’m picking on Niley a lot but they are just a great example with Twitter trending topics, websites, comments and people freaking out over both of them moving on and dating others. None of us know who’s right for these kids. They are young and it could be years before they meet their soul mates. They both seem very happy with their lives so you fans should too. Stop focusing on what their doing and start focusing on what they are creating. They are all talented but that gets over shadowed by whose hearts getting broken when and where.

     Just because they write a song for someone or with someone doesn’t mean every time from that point on that they sing that song its JUST for that person. In fact most of the times they sing those songs are JUST for YOU the fans.This theory is the same with movies. Just because they fell in love in the movies doesn’t mean they are destined to be together like omg forever.

        In closing, I hope you all who make yourself look like fools (not the normal fans who think a couple is cute or its kind of sad they broke up but the over emotional obsessed fans) realize whatever you do, no matter how hard you try your not going to breakup/makeup or hookup any relationships because you want it unless it’s your own. Just because they looked/look cute together doesn’t mean they won’t grow up or their emotions won’t change. Your making yourself look completely crazy and pathetic idiotic and desperately sad by obsessing over someone else’s life. So chill out and get over it! It’s not going to happen the way you want it to. Life rarely does.

<3 Bobbie

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